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Pope Francis on Homosexuality

8/28/2013

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Pope Francis gives great opportunities for commentary, and he’s done it again. In his impromptu interview with press on the plane back to Rome from World Youth Day, the world media focused its attention on one of the Pope’s comments (considerably more than on the 3 million young Catholics packing the Copacabana beach at Rio de Janeiro to celebrate their faith). Here’s the comment:

“There’s a lot of talk about the gay lobby, but I’ve never seen it on the Vatican ID card. When I meet a gay person, I have to distinguish between their being gay and being part of a lobby. If they accept the Lord and have goodwill, who am I to judge them?They shouldn’t be marginalized. The tendency [i.e., same-sex attraction] is not the problem … they’re our brothers.”

The bolded line is the about only one that was picked up by mainstream media. World News Tonight on ABC immediately set up a comparison between Francis and his predecessors, Benedict XVI and John Paul II, making it sound like good Pope Francis is breaking away from the hateful, mean Benedict. Only two words from Pope (Emeritus) Benedict XVI were quoted by the media outlet, that homosexuality is “objectively disordered.” They gave three words to John Paul II, that homosexual acts are “against natural law.” In a one minute feature, there’s no possible way they could’ve done justice to the Church’s stance on homosexuality.

Long story short, Pope Francis is directly in line with Benedict and John Paul II. I will do my best to explain this- here goes!

To start, I would like to offer Joseph Cardinal Ratzinger’s (Benedict XVI) words in his 1986 address to John Paul II on the pastoral care of homosexual persons:

“The human person, made in the image and likeness of God, can hardly be adequately described by a reductionist reference to his or her sexual orientation. Every one living on the face of the earth has personal problems and difficulties, but challenges to growth, strengths, talents and gifts as well. Today, the Church provides a badly needed context for the care of the human person when she refuses to consider the person as a “heterosexual” or a “homosexual” and insists that every person has a fundamental Identity: the creature of God, and by grace, his child and heir to eternal life.”

“It is deplorable that homosexual persons have been and are the object of violent malice in speech or in action. Such treatment deserves condemnation from the Church’s pastors wherever it occurs.”

So what is he saying here? The modern world tends to take little aspects of a person and then designate that as their entire identity. Sexuality is probably the most common one now. It’s problematic though. I’m heterosexual, but that isn’t the essence and entirety of who I am. The modern debate on gay marriage, however, is framed precisely in that reductionist way. To be gay means that your whole being is your attraction to the same sex. To be straight means that your whole being is your attraction to the opposite sex. To be against gay marriage, therefore, is to be against gay people, which is discriminatory, degrading, an affront to human dignity, and very un-Christ-like.

But Benedict is insisting on the fact that our identity isn’t found in our sexual orientation. Our human identity, one that we all share, is that we are children of God, gay people and straight people alike. We are made that way through Jesus Christ, the Son of God, who entered fully into our human condition and won for us the redemptive grace of the Father on the cross. He’s saying that our true orientation where we find the fulfillment of our deepest yearning for joy is the risen Christ, not our sexuality. We encounter the risen Christ only by way of the cross. Take St. Paul’s words in this regard, “it is no longer I who live, but Christ who lives in me!”

Orientation is key here. In its more ancient meaning, orientation meant you pointed yourself to the east, or towards the rising sun. This was of course symbolic of the risingSon, that being the resurrected Jesus Christ. That’s why most Catholic churches face east. Whereas Jews face towards Jerusalem, their place of revelation, and Muslims face Mecca, their place of revelation, Christians simply faced the east because the resurrected Christ (symbolized by the sun) was the complete and full revelation of God to man.

So we orient ourselves to the One who brings the fullness of life. Think of it like a mountain. Mountain imagery is all over the Bible, e.g. Mt. Sinai and the 10 commandments, the Sermon on the Mount, the crucifixion on a hill outside Jerusalem. It’s symbolic of man’s ascent to God, as well as God’s descent to man. It’s the meeting point between God and man. So our goal is to make it to the peak. What’s at the peak? Christ on the cross, our salvation.
He’s our orientation, so we order ourselves toward that goal. If we orient ourselves toward anything lower than the peak, it is substituting another thing in place of Christ. If we order our lives after that substitution for Christ, we are not aiming toward our salvation, we are aiming toward something less than our salvation, which is less than the fullness of life. Therefore to be ordered toward something less than the peak where Christ is on the cross, we are disordered. Aha, there it is. Objectively disordered. That goes for any person who acts on a sinful temptation:  cohabitation/pre-marital sex, homosexual acts, malice toward and marginalization of gays, selfishness, neglect of the poor, etc., etc.
John Paul’s statement that it’s against natural law fits precisely in this imagery. The natural law written on our hearts is the “human expression of the divine law” (cf Veritatis Splendor). This means it is ingrained in our very being to want to order lives toward our true identity as children of God, not merely heterosexual, not merely homosexual, but to live in the fullness of being.

Now back to Pope Francis’ quote,

“When I meet a gay person, I have to distinguish between their being gay and being part of a lobby. If they accept the Lord and have goodwill, who am I to judge them? They shouldn’t be marginalized. The tendency [i.e., same-sex attraction] is not the problem … they’re our brothers.”

Being part of a lobby is to promote the reductionist orientation (in this case the gay lobby) of “my sexuality is my entire identity.” Pope Francis, like B16 and JP2, is refusing to reduce a person in that way. “They’re our brothers.” We are all children of God in Christ. In accepting the Lord and having goodwill, you are orienting yourself towards Christ, which means you are working to properly order your life towards him, thus fulfilling the natural law written on our hearts and approaching the wood of the cross, on which is hung our Salvation.

Written by: Marty Arlinghaus

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Will My Husband Be My Soulmate?

8/28/2013

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In some ways, Hannah’s blog post, “My husband is not my soulmate” is refreshing. I can’t remember all the reasons why, but when I read Harris’ “I Kissed Dating Goodbye” in high school, I detested it and the trendy (in Christian pop culture) reaction of courting that came with it. Also, I think that for some, the concept of “finding your soul mate” can be a distraction from big-picture thinking:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Vr8wU4aUsM

However, I do take issue with some of Hannah’s conclusions.

Hannah claims that “there is no biblical basis to indicate that God has one soul mate for you to find and marry.” Call me Catholic, but it’s impossible for me to swallow that when the angel Raphael told Tobias, “Do not be afraid, for she (Sara) was set apart for you before the world existed. You will save her, and she will go with you” (Tobit 6:18).

Not down with the Deuterocanon? You’re missing out!
These biblical relationships were imperfect but certainly ordained by God for the purpose of his divine plan (of saving the world):

  1. Abraham and Sarah
  2. Isaac and Rebecca
  3. Jacob and Rachel
  4. Tobias and Sara
  5. Boaz and Ruth
  6. Esther and King Xerxes
  7. Mary and Joseph
There may be more. That’s just what Alicia and I came up with off the top of our heads. Now these 7 relationships don’t necessarily mean that there is definitely only one person destined for you, but they certainly demonstrate that God has worked that way before.

Was Hannah’s dad suggesting that Jeremiah 29:11 can be applied exclusively to the Israelites in only one scenario? I applaud his recognition that there are different genres and senses of Scripture, but since the dawn of creation God has revealed to us that he does in fact have plans to give us hope and a future.

With Psalm 37:4, Hannah reminds us never to take Scripture out of context. It says, “Find your delight in the Lord who will give you your heart’s desire.” Her dad might have done her a favor by telling her that the second half of the verse depends on the first: “No, sweetie. That verse is not saying that your heavenly Father will give you whatever you want. He’s a better parent than that. Rather, when you delight in the Lord, the desire of your heart is the Lord, and he desperately wants to give himself to you.”

I love that her Bible scholar dad taught her not to over spiritualize her decisions. There are some choices that are pretty inconsequential or offer multiple equally good solutions.The Lord is at peace whether you choose ketchup or mustard; get off your knees and choose a condiment.

When it comes to vocation, there is no option that ruins everything. Priesthood, religious life, and marriage are all intrinsically good. Still, God has a huge interest in your vocation because that’s your road to him.

http://youtu.be/FCWFKe5w-WA

http://youtu.be/hKSRs4fWe0k

http://youtu.be/GH5n9lVZcM4

Please note: Predestination and providence are not the same. This is where my students get all tripped up. I’ll admit: it’s confusing. The way in which God involves himself in our vocational discernment is mysterious and, although it is hard to understand his weird ways, we can trust that however he intervenes is just right. He knows how our personal stories will play out and works everything together for our salvation, without violating our free will.

Hannah says that “God’s plan is for us to be made more holy, more like Christ… not marry a certain person.” But are those concepts mutually exclusive? Marriage is a journey of making one another holy and more like Christ. Isn’t it possible that God has specially prepared one person (or a limited number of people) to do just that for you, and prepared you to do that for him?

If you are called to marriage, it is very good to pray for the person you will marry and trust that the grace and blessings that are God’s response to your prayers will be mediated rightly. If you are called to priesthood/religious life, it is very good to pray for your future parish or community with that same trust.

I’m sort of a self-historian. I love gathering data that catalogues various aspects of my journey in life. This includes my baby book, a developmental analysis from when I was in preschool, a chart of how many hours of sleep I got during one month of my sophomore year in high school, and yes, prayers that I have written for my future husband. The article seemed kind of belittling to girls who are trying to seek God when they are young, before they have met their spouse.  Of course we’ll look back at things we’ve written and think, “Wow, I was so immature,” but that doesn’t mean that the path is nonsense. If you have made a list of what is important to you in a spouse, I hope that it indeed helped you avoid dating “scumbags.” Mine certainly helped me. However, two important tips that have also helped me are: 1. Focus more on becoming the woman who God created you to be and less on evaluating men/spouse-hunting; 2. Be sure that the list grows up with you as you learn what ingredients are truly important for a holy marriage.

It’s possible that God is calling me to marry my boyfriend. It’s also possible that he is not. So we are praying every day that he will reveal his plan for us and give us the grace to cooperate. If, in the end, we validly confer the Sacrament of Matrimony upon one another, that Sacrament is our vocation until death parts us. That, then, is THE path that God wills us to take in order to get to heaven. The process of discernment that is so important right now will then be, more or less, a moot point.

Hannah and I agree that entering a vocation does not mean that you are “done.” Marriage means choosing to fully give yourself to God by fully giving yourself to your spouse every day. Without the grace of God, this is an impossible task. “From the beginning of creation, ‘God made them male and female.For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother [and be joined to his wife],and the two shall become one flesh.’ So they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, no human being must separate.” Love is an act of will that consists of constantly preferring the good of others to the good of oneself. That is why love is possible in the absence of warm feelings.

Perhaps there are multiple people out there who would equally help you live out the vocation of marriage, and/or one man among them is good for you but another is even better. Or perhaps God has one specific person (call him your soul mate if you want) who he wants you to marry. It has happened before. What I do know is that God has a plan for our lives and, relative to the other choices we make, vocation is a big one. It’s worth praying about it.

The point is that we were all created to be holy. God will neither make your choices for you, nor sit back wondering what you will do next.  If a relationship with a particular man is helping you respond to God’s call, perhaps you should marry the fellow. Your job is to prayerfully discern God’s will and respond to him. For today, focus on knowing the Lord deeply and personally. That way, if/when he urges you to action, you will recognize his voice.

Written by: Kelly O’Brien

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Curing the Epicurus Argument…Epicly.

8/28/2013

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Most of the time when you go to the internet seeking a discussion on Theology with strangers, the best you get is something like this:
However, there are also some people who will, at the very least, provide their reasons why they do or not believe in God. These people can often be found in YouTube comments (lolnotheycant).

The most widely seen “This is why I’m an Atheist” post to float around the internet is this very popular quote:

Aside from the fact that this probably didn’t come from Epicurus, it at least warrants a thoughtful response. As Christians, it’s important to be proficient in Apologetics, or Defense of the Faith. If we are to evangelize, we have to be able to answer questions like these. Too often “Faith” is used as a substitute for logic. Too often people answer the question of “Why do you believe ____?” with “Because I have Faith.” Which isn’t an answer – it’s restating the question.

The answer to the question should instead be “Because it is logical.” And… the hard part… then you should be able to tell them WHY it’s logical.

Now, back to this Epicurus argument. Let’s start looking at it. This one suffers from a very bad case of a false premise. While it is completely logical to say that if A=B, and B=C, and C=D, then A must equal D, things start falling apart when you start defining the variables as abstract things.

Here’s the classic way to abuse the A=B=C=D logic track:

God Is Love
Love is Blind
Stevie Wonder is Blind
Stevie Wonder is God

Have you all said a prayer to Stevie yet? No, of course not. I’ll trust we don’t have to dissect that one.

So let’s look at these lines from the Epicurus argument.


  • Is God willing to prevent Evil, but not able? Then he is not omnipotent.
Well let’s start with the definition of omnipotent, shall we?

Omnipotent: Having unlimited power; able to do anything.Ok, so, the first line states that if God wanted to do something but wasn’t able to, he wouldn’t be this all-powerful God fellow we all know and love.

This line actually makes sense. We can agree with it. That is logical.

Side note: Humans defining omnipotence is murky at best. Understand that since God can’t be limited, there are things he can’t (or won’t) do, such as: Limit himself, contradict himself, do evil, etc.


  • Is he able, but not willing? Then he is malevolent
Here is where the argument starts to fall apart. These two sentences fall back to one of the most basic, complex, and historically annoying facts about a world created by God: Why the heck is there sin? Everybody struggles with the fact that bad things happen every day, often to kind, admirable, and innocent people.

In order to get to the bottom of this, we have to look at who God is. As Christians, we believe God to be Loving. We believe God IS Love.  So what does that mean?

Love has to be unconditional. “I’ll love you if ____” is not love. Speaking as a son who has undoubtedly (maybe once or twice) ticked off my parents, they don’t stop loving me when they’re mad at me. That means, and here’s the hard part – if you love someone, you love them even if they don’t love you. Even if they tick you off. That’s the hardest part of Christian love.

Love also has to be freely given. A number of movies in cinema can show that  the disgruntled villain shouting at the woman “YOU WILL LOVE ME OR ELSE” is not exactly up there with movies such as The Notebook.

So when God created man, he created them with the option of being able to choose to not love Him (That’s what Hell is for). If God made people Love him, that’s not real love, is it?  “Well if God knows everything, he must know some people will choose not to love him. Why would God still create those people?” This is a very good question. However, if God created man with the ability of free-will, yet did not create those who he knew would not choose him, then it’s really not free will if anybody who would have chosen against him was simply not created.

This is also a good time to point out the fact that Hell is an act of Love. Hell isn’t a place where God sends people kicking and screaming with them begging to stay and love Him. If God is indeed loving, he has to be accepting of the fact that some may choose to not be with him. Hell is absence of God. If somebody truly does not want to be with God, Heaven would not be an act of love. It would be God forcing them to be with him. There’s no free will there. Hell must exist in order for free will to exist.

God is able to prevent evil. God wills good. But God will never override free will in order to get what he wants. He is benevolent, not malevolent.  God is indeed willing to prevent evil; yet it exists because we are not, and because he won’t force us to.


  • Is he both able and willing? Then whence cometh evil?
God is able to prevent evil. God is willing to prevent evil. God is not willing to prevent evil at the expense of overriding our personal choice. Where there is a choice to love, there must also be a choice not to love. Where there is good, there also must have been a possibility of bad. How else would something be measured as good without a possibility of anything else? Evil comes from choice. But so does Good. So, whence cometh evil? That’s an easy one: us.

  • Is he neither able nor willing? Then why call him God.
Weren’t you listening Epicurus? He is able. He is willing.

And to tie this all up, I’ll leave you with the words of St. Thomas Aquinas. When his sister asked him “How can I become a saint?” he responded with two simple words: “Will it.”

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Skepticism: the most boring philosophy ever

8/28/2013

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The other day I came across this quote:

“When you call yourself an Indian or a Muslim or a Christian or a European, or anything else, you are being violent. Do you see why it is violent? Because you are separating yourself from the rest of mankind. When you separate yourself by belief, by nationality, by tradition, it breeds violence. So a man who is seeking to understand violence does not belong to any country, to any religion, to any political party or partial system; he is concerned with the total understanding of mankind.”

― Jiddu Krishnamurti

Of course, it had many likes. For me, this is what went on in my head:

And
Then I was like...
In fact, it is impossible not to identify with something. That is precisely what human nature is. We discern, accept certain things, and say no to certain things. If you don’t believe me, then look no further than the oxymoron that we call hypsterdom. They all don’t identify with anything mainstream, which would lead you to think they all look radically different even from each other, but hey check it out:

-big glasses

-listen to bands you’ve never heard of

-secretly love getting the attention of being a hipster while outwardly acting to the contrary

-wear plaid and other shabby clothing

-ride fixies

-instagram everything

-drink funky herbal teas

-for God’s sake don’t call a hipster a hipster.

-(Oh and if you call yourself a hipster, there’s no way on earth you’re a hipster)

So yeah, even those who don’t identify with something, still end up identifying with something.

Then I realized it’s us moderns’ dream quote because it’s a seemingly spiritualized way of asserting western skepticism. It’s the most amazing combination of eastern pantheism (God is in everything, as everything, therefore accept everything and reject nothing) and western skepticism (reject everything, accept nothing). It’s our checkmate against any claim or assertion of Truth. Just forget about it, we’re being violent if we even attempt to discover a truth that is universal. We don’t want to be violent right? Violence is a bad thing. But here’s the problem we run into:

And then we hit this conundrum
And then finally this predicament
And that’s what I say to my computer every time I hear Richard Dawkins tell his audience to be skeptical.

Basically it comes down to this, skepticism is boring. Very boring. Not to mention intellectually suicidal. If you truly are skeptical, then you eventually have to doubt everything, even your doubt, and I highly doubt that your doubt will satisfy you beyond a doubt.

So what is exciting? Being able to say “yes” and to say “no.” Being able to say what’s right and what’s wrong. When we take a positive stance (not like happy thoughts but positing that there is some concrete goal we are meant to achieve) rather than automatically negating everything so as to avoid danger, our lives become exciting, thrilling even. None of our stories would be worth telling nor our lives worth living if there was no danger involved, because danger comes with adventure, and adventure comes with a journey, and journey comes from mission, and mission comes from the existence of an end goal. We can’t self-create mission or journey or a goal. They’re given to us. They mold us and shape us to make the judgments we make and act the way we do. The victorious hero is the one who says “yes” to what is good and “no” to what is evil, both in great things and in small things.

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Gandalf said to Frodo, “you must take the ring of power into Mordor and cast it into the fires of Mount Doom, otherwise Sauron will enslave the entire world!”

Frodo replied, “I don’t want to separate myself from the rest of middle earth by trying to destroy the ring, Gandalf. Sorry, I won’t carry it.”

Then orcs invaded the Shire and darkness covered all the lands, and every elf, dwarf, man, and hobbit was made slave to Sauron.

The End

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The story goes much better when Frodo says “yes” to the mission.

That is why Krishnamurti’s philosophy ultimately disappoints. It tells us there should be no mission, because a mission makes you realize that there are “others” out there. He says that’s violent. Without an “other,” though, I can’t love, that would simply be narcissism, and that is very boring. I am not growing; I am not journeying; I have no goal to reach; and so I conquer no evil.

Saying “yes” is a scary thing. It means something is required of me. It’s means difficulty. It means thinking well always. It means discipline. It means endurance. It means self-denial. It means sacrifice. It means unreserved, perfect love. To do Good for the other as other. This is the Catholic way of life. One. Big. Yes.

And for those who need the encouragement to continue the journey

Written by:

Marty Arlinghaus

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What Was the Spirit of Vatican II?

8/28/2013

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In case any of us may have forgotten, we’re still in the Year of Faith initiated by now Pope Emeritus Benedict XVI. It’s been 50 years since the second Vatican council and 20 years since the publishing of the Catechism of the Catholic Church.

I find my generation to be one of the most fortunate to be living right in this time period. We’re smack dab in the formative years of the Church after a major ecumenical council. But wait, 50 years is a long time, the formative years were the ones right after the council when everything was changing. Well, no, actually. Fifty years is nothing to a nearly 2,000-year-old institution. As a Church we’ve had 21 ecumenical councils, and it usually took 100 years or so for everyone to get on the same page after a council. Some much much longer, like the First Council of Nicaea where our creed as we know it was affirmed. The Arians (the heretics not the Nazi Germans) fought long and hard and even almost stamped out the Orthodox Faith, but luckily our buddy St. Athanasius stood contra mundi and ensured the correct faith would win out in the end. The Church would not be the same without him.

So here we are, in the 21st century, it’s been 50 short years after Vatican II and the Church is still kind of a mess. We’ve experienced the worst scandal ever to rock the priesthood with the sex abuses. The mass is in shambles as attendance plummets and parishes start doing weirder and weirder things in the mass to try to make it “relevant” to the people, even though they know the bishop would probably have good cause to tear his garments if he saw what was going on. We find ourselves roiling in our own concocted politics, in-fighting, and open dissent (historically known as heresy), meanwhile the outside world goes to town with it’s ever malicious comments and remarks, which then just boxes Catholic’s into a nice little package that you can understand in one phrase and move on with your life.

And yet, we’re the lucky generation. We’re at the crux, the point where God calls upon his saints to answer. We have the chance to fight the good fight against the odds and win like St. Athanasius. We can see the errors that occurred in the wake of the council and know to avoid them. We have a great new pope, Francis, who has called us to stop bickering amongst ourselves, and instead take the True Faith and go out to the world that desperately needs the Gospel message and evangelize it.

If we’re going to start somewhere in getting things right, I propose that we start at the “Spirit of the Vatican II.” That ambiguous phrase has been used for 50 years to justify anything and everything. “You’re saying I can’t have liturgical dancing? That’s not in the spirit of Vatican II!”

What was the “spirit of the council” anyway? Well, if it was anything other than theHoly Spirit, then we need to reject the council, because that means the council was not inspired by God, who the Church must always listen to. If it’s the Holy Spirit who was at work at the council, that doesn’t mean that he stopped working when the council concluded. It also doesn’t mean he wasn’t at work before the council either. The tendency to dismiss the Church pre-Vatican II as all bad, flawed, backwards, archaic, “not with the times” and the Church post-Vatican II as being totally fixed and good has done serious damage to our prayer lives, our Tradition and traditions, and our Church’s overall health. God is constantly at work among us, so we have to be constantly listening to him.  That means we need to stop being so noisy, (especially at mass) and listen. How?

but then this happens
Because the documents are very telling on those who commandeered the reforms of the council and manipulated them to their own wills. So in addition to reading the documents, what else should we do? Listen to the leaders of the reforms. Here are two of them you might recognize and pay special attention to:

This blessed guy who’s soon to be sainted

and this guy
That’s right, our last two popes were key players at Vatican II. Cardinal Karol Wojtyla and Father Joseph Ratzinger they were called at the time. If there was a “spirit of the council” these are the guys who could tell you what it was (it was the Holy Spirit by the way). More to it, they can tell you what the council said and what it didn’t say; what it meant, and what it didn’t mean. There’s nothing to compare with their rock solid philosophy and theology in their writings in the past century. I trust these guys because they didn’t treat it as some academic theological challenge, but they did/do everything within the praying Church. Only the praying Church is open to the movements of the Holy Spirit. We need scripture and tradition. We nearly lost both after Vatican II, fortunately we have our rock, the successors of St. Peter.

A couple of suggestions of their writings would be Veritatis Splendor by JPII, Jesus of Nazareth, and Spirit of the Liturgy by Benedict XVI. If you don’t have the time or the will to read their works, then here’s the main take-away from it all. (Pope Francis says this too)

There is one God; the Father Almighty who created heaven and earth; Jesus Christ his only begotten Son, consubstantial with the Father, who for our sake became man, was crucified on the cross, was buried, and rose again on the third day, and ascended to heaven where he reigns with the Father; and the Holy Spirit, who proceeds from the Father and the Son. There is one holy, catholic, and apostolic Church. There is one baptism for the forgiveness of sins. There is a resurrection, it is Jesus, death does not have the final say. There is a hope of the world to come which will surpass this one beyond our wildest dreams. Now go out, and spread this good news.

Written by:

Marty Arlinghaus

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This Was Something Real – My Journey Into Catholicism

8/28/2013

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“I recently became Catholic and it was easy,” said no one ever.

To say the least, I have had quite the unexpected year that started with a conversation with a Catholic guy that grew into a full exploration of the Catholic faith and lead me to become a fully confirmed Catholic. And it feels like God punched me in the face (lovingly) and I am still reeling from the blow.

Sometimes I still think to myself “Wow, wait… Did I really do that?” I’m not exactly the type of person to make a huge stink about every opinion and belief I have- make no mistake, I stand proudly for Truth and Truth alone- but how did I end up making the decision to become part of the type of Christianity that makes the boldest and most controversial statements on just about every thinkable issue? Well, like I said, it all started with a conversation with a Catholic guy.

For most of my life, I have viewed Catholicism as the quirky superstitious Christianity- that as long as Catholics believe that Jesus Christ is the Son of God and is “the way, the truth and the life,” they’re cool, but you just shouldn’t ask them too much about those weird crackers they think are God, the Pope who they think is almost God, Mary who they think is the female God, and the saints who they think are other cute little gods.

So when Andrew (my now boyfriend) started talking to me a year ago about my faith as a non-denominational Christian and we found that we actually agreed on a lot of points of Christianity, I thought that maybe there was something more to Catholicism. We kept coming back to interesting and deep discussions on many different topics and I wanted to know more about this side to Catholicism I never knew of.

I shared with him my questions and convictions of Christianity. He told me once “Wow, you sound like a Catholic.” I was a little taken aback by this because the whole time we had been talking I was thinking Wow, you don’t sound like a Catholic. He invited me to go to Mass with him, which I attended out of curiosity and expected nothing but an interesting cultural experience. The building was incredible but the mass itself was quite confusing and foreign to me and I was honestly more drawn to only discussing Catholic beliefs and attending a church with a style I was more accustomed to instead. We started dating and I began to grow deeper in understanding Catholic beliefs.

I began to attending mass at Annunciation Parish in the fall and even signed up for RCIA at St. Gertrude Parish to explore more. A few months later, I attended adoration with Andrew and a few friends at a parish I had never been to. I was amazed at the sheer beauty of the place adorned with dazzling stained glass from far above me that shone down on the flowing curves of the architecture, immaculate paintings, candles, icons, symbols, sculptures… etc. It was overwhelming and seemed to never end.

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Annunciation: My home parish
As I wandered in awe about the church, I came across a sculpture of St. Therese “The Little Flower” and read a small plaque that told the story of her “little way” and included her novena. I was interested but skeptical of what it all meant. There was something attractive yet overwhelming about the complexity of the Catholic Church including the incredible art and architecture, the colossal number of people who were part of the Catholic Church, the history it clung so closely to, the millions of books and documents on Catholic doctrine, the magisterium, the militant attitude that follows Catholics, and even the smell of a Catholic church. And yet in the midst of it there was this story of a young woman whose little deeds done with great love changed the world. I felt connected to her and wanted whatever it was that made her so special, but was skeptical of this little poem that was supposed to grant me some request by a dead person. Andrew encouraged me to give the little prayer a shot, so after some time I decided to just try. I prayed with an earnest heart and said to St. Therese, “You know, I really don’t know about all this Catholic stuff, but if I really am supposed to be here and learning this stuff and it’s convenient for you… I don’t really want anything for myself, but it would be nice if I could get a sign of some sort.” I forgot about it for the next eight days and was very doubtful that I would actually get anything, but on the ninth day I received exactly what I had ordered: coming home from classes, I found a box of a dozen roses on my front porch addressed to my roommate with a note that said “God bless you. Praying for you. Always and forever. Have a good day!” It took me a few minutes to put everything together, but when it hit me, it rocked my world. I realized that in Catholicism, saints are not meant to be little gods that magically grant wishes for fun. Rather, as St. Therese did for me, saints give us exactly what we need at exactly the right time that points us directly to God. This couldn’t have been a coincidence. This was something real. It wasn’t that St. Therese put the roses into existence just the way I wanted them for funsies- I know where they actually came from and why they were addressed to my roommate on that day. But it wasn’t a coincidence that I had been compelled nine days earlier to complete this novena at a time that I was seriously searching for truth in Catholicism and needed a straight answer from God to tell me whether or not I was doing this right. This was something God wanted for me and allowed for St. Therese to be a friend and give me something to better understand Him. I understood that the role of saints (including Mary) is not to be gods to glorify themselves, but their purpose is to point people to the one and only God.
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My flowers from St. Therese
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Her lovely note to me
Around this same time, I was introduced to the Catechism. It amazed me I had never known that there was a book like this. I remember that when I was going through a difficult time in my faith in high school, I wrote down every question that I had that related to religion that ranged from questions about evolution, to demonic possession, to cultural relativism, to sexuality. I had many thoughts and ideas about these many different things, but had no idea where to start to get my answers. I thought that there should be some great big book that explains everything about religion. Since I had never heard of such a thing, I decided I would be the honored one to write it. I titled it “Principles of Religion.” The first and only line I completed was something along the lines of “there must be only one truth.” I was then immediately overwhelmed by the vastness of my task and gave up. Of course there are many different books that address any topic imaginable- a plethora of them being Christian views- but no one book that started logically from the beginning of everything imaginable about God and addressed every pressing issue and how it follows that one take a certain action in response. This was something that one could logically argue. The Catechism was literally written to fulfill this need: to give the logical explanation for everything Catholicism stands for and to give the basic Catholic stance on many current and pressing issues.

I began asking even more questions that further challenged Catholicism, trusting that God was leading me towards something important. And I cannot deny that with nearly every question or issue I had with Catholicism, within about a week I would hear some kind of explanation that struck me in either a homily at mass, at RCIA, or in a discussion with friends. But it never stopped. It still happens to this day and cannot be a coincidence.This was something God wanted me to know about.

The most profound example of this was in the winter when I had been frustrated with and seriously struggling with a lot of Catholicism and was feeling very alone in my circumstances and beliefs. I had just completed a class of RCIA with Andrew and my sponsor Kelly that I had struggled to pay attention in and was lighting a candle for prayer for my struggles that were weighing me down. As I finished, Andrew waved me over to where he and Kelly were talking to one of Dominicans of St. Gertrude. He introduced himself as Brother John Paul and explained that he felt called by God to come into the building after his evening prayer and started making small talk with Kelly and Andrew and reveled that he had actually gone through RCIA only a few years ago. Andrew, Kelly, and I immediately realized that this must have been another one of those circumstances where God answers my questions and struggles in the exact way that I needed at that very moment. They both looked at me and I laughed and went “Yeah, I know… Well this is annoying…” Brother John Paul proceeded to share with me his testimony that struck me deeply of how he was a passionate non-Catholic Christian en-route to becoming a minister or sorts when he was introduced to Catholicism and it seemed to fill the parts of his life he felt were lacking. He spoke about his testing of Catholicism in RCIA and how he now felt unique in his vocation as a non-“cradle-Catholic”. In a lot of ways, Brother John Paul’s story was just a male version of my own. At this time I realized that this isn’t something anyone should do alone, rather this was something God wants people to do together.

Brother John Paul
Finally one stressful night in adoration, I was struggling to shake the worries of my life away to focus only on God and I prayed fervently to God asking Him to reveal to me what I was supposed to be doing. I felt lost and weighed down by the busyness of everything around me. Even though a great deal of the truth that Catholicism stood for was something that had become very important to me, I still struggled occasionally with the smells, bells, and overall feel of Catholic culture. I was looking around at the paintings inside Annunciation and was again overwhelmed by all the beauty of my surroundings. These things weren’t bad, but it was frustrating that I didn’t feel that comfortable and at home where I was. My soul churned in a way that made me feel as though there was something I just about to discover about myself at the tip of my tongue.

I felt compelled to close my eyes and close myself up until it was just God and myself. I waited for a few moments to clear my head when I realized that that was really what I needed more of- to clear my head and take what I have learned and figure out what Ipersonally believe. I opened my eyes and began to write down everything I believe about religion, myself, and how the two fit together. At the end of it, I found that most of what I had written was the same as the Nicene Creed and even further, my personal beliefs lined up with what the Catholic. I went home that night and stayed up late talking to Andrew about the possibility of getting Confirmed.

Then came the oddest moment in my journey of exploring Catholicism. There suddenly was a smile that grew across my face and I could not wipe it off. There was so much more that I wanted to confirm before I decided to get Confirmed. But God lead me to understand that you don’t have to understand everything perfectly to believe and that no such person exists. Rather, my desire to know Him is good and that all I have to do is look back upon the evidence he provided for me and those who helped me along the way. It was that moment that I announced I wanted to become Confirmed.

And that is what lead me to get Confirmed. To say yes. To become part of the people of the Eucharist. Peter Kreeft really spoke to me in his talk called “Socrates Meets Jesus” (link posted at the end) when he spoke about how “feelings are only the sugar on top”. I find that sometimes the most difficult part of searching for the most important truths in life is the feeling of the jumping off point. It doesn’t feel good to put yourself out there. But again, I think Kreeft found words that explain it perfectly: “One of the few things in life that cannot possibly do harm in the end is the honest pursuit of the truth.” It doesn’t always feel good, but truth most definitely outweighs the feeling. This is how I found myself to be Catholic.

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After being Confirmed on Easter with my sponsor Kelly, and Andrew
Peter Kreeft Video^

Written By:
Annie Elizabeth Therese Seiple

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Oh Mother of Mine, Oh Mother Divine

8/28/2013

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Mothers probably have the greatest vocation ever. Motherhood is not a job. If it were, it would probably rank as the worst job in history. No, motherhood is a vocation, a calling to something much much greater than simply a job. It is a life ordained by God and dedicated to someone beyond herself, a life of self-emptying love, pouring herself out for the sake of her children, that they might grow up to be patient, kind, generous, wise, prudent, conscientious, peaceful, gentle, humble, well-rounded, joyful, faithful, hopeful, and loving. (and sharply dressed) Motherhood cannot be bought or sold, as some try to do. Motherhood cannot be undignified, as some want to see it. Motherhood cannot be replaced, as some think is possible. Motherhood is priceless. Motherhood is dignified. Motherhood is irreplaceable. A mom’s “no” comes from a greater “yes.” A yes to life; a yes to Goodness; a yes to Beauty; a yes to Truth; and a yes to Love. Motherhood is a sign from God himself to the world to see what godliness looks like lived out each and every single day from the smallest to the greatest of things.
There’s a reason we Catholics honor Jesus’ mother Mary the way we do. She’s the Mother of God. Christ willed that she be his mother, and if he, who is God eternal, is so humble as to call her his mother, so should we. Since he honors her in heaven, we honorher on earth. Motherhood was dignified as greatest vocation in Christ’s incarnation. Mothers have the special dignity of sharing in Mary’s vocation of Motherhood. The more they live the greatest vocation on earth, the closer we come to Christ.

So thank your mom today, listen to her and imitate her for the rest of the year.

Written by:  Marty Arlinghaus

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Watch What You Eat 

8/28/2013

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I’ve seen any number of commentaries on Genesis from really childish and stupid youtube animations to Bill Maher’s “Religulous” to Richard Dawkins’ fiery rants to online memes, and they all seem to seethe over one particular thing… the tree of the forbidden fruit.

Now, keep in mind, Genesis is a theological explanation of the world’s beginnings, not a scientific one, which means it is just as true as evolution, but pertaining to a deeper truth than the purely physical matter of the world. It uses allegory, poetry, symbolism, and rich language that cannot be unpacked using a literalist/scientific approach.

 Back to the topic. Usually the commentary goes something like, “God is such a petty, egotistical, dictatorial, masochistic jerk who doesn’t want humans to have knowledge because he forbids them to eat from the Tree of Knowledge.” I’d agree wholeheartedly with all of them, except that they’re leaving out an important part of it; it’s the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil. Huh, does that maybe change something here? Indeed it does.

We moderns tend to think in the abstract. We think that everything can be measured and empirically tested and neatly put into a box that we can wrap our minds around and say, “Oh I get it, next topic.” We want to be totally objective, looking at it from afar where it doesn’t bear much meaning to us. For us, knowledge of good and evil fits that same kind of knowing, but unfortunately that’s just not the case for us humans, and Genesis reminds us of that truth, we are subjective beings, too.

See, there’s a reason that Adam and Eve eat something that represents knowledge of good and evil. By eating it, they take it into their bodies. Its essence becomes part of them (ergo us too). Not abstractly either, like we want it to be, but instead we know good and evil concretely, with our entire being, body and soul, heart and mind. Good and evil are not just something that we look at from afar and understand. Our knowledge of it is a lived knowledge, and that includes death, which is not what the living God desires for us.

For us mere mortals, we don’t have the power within ourselves to break out of the hold that eating the fruit from the tree has over us. In eating the fruit we grasped at that divinity, but it does not belong to us. God does, however, and he designed from the beginning for us to share in his eternal life. Just like we cannot know good and evil from afar abstractly, God would not save us from afar abstractly, decreeing from Heaven that our sins are forgiven and that we can enter eternal life. That means nothing to us whose essence has been tainted by the fruit of the tree.

God became man. Jesus Christ, the Son of the living God, took on our human nature, being born of the Virgin Mary, sharing in our humanity in every way except for sin. He became part of our lived knowledge of good and evil, and in his passion and death allowed the full horrible violence of Evil to destroy his body on the cross, but that was not the end. Death has no power over the living God. Jesus rose again on the third day in the fullness of life, the resurrection from the dead.  We are restored in our dignity and now have the way to redemption, we are able to break out of our fallen nature and share in eternal life with God, because God himself has set us free concretely. It is in our union with Christ, the resurrection from the dead, that we are able to participate in his salvation and eternal life.

But God knows a little something about us humans, and that’s that we can’t know things abstractly. We can’t just look back at ancient history and fully grasp what happened in the death and resurrection of Jesus and participate in the fullness of it. He knows that we have to know it concretely, here and now, so Jesus gave us something to eat, his very body and blood.
We take him into our bodies, and his essence becomes our own. His death becomes our own, and his resurrection becomes our own. We know the fullness of life with our entirebeing when we celebrate the Eucharist, body and soul, mind and heart. It unites us perfectly with him, and yet it still points us forward into deeper communion because we humans are still on the journey, we’re not yet there. It remains a mystery to us, one that we constantly enter into, or rather, allow it to enter into us, so that we can fall ever more greatly in love with He Who Is Love, and one day eat at God’s heavenly banquet. It started with eating wrongly and it will end with eating rightly.

Written by: Marty Arlinghaus

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We are the Church that is

8/28/2013

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I hear a lot about how the Catholic Church is fading into superstitious myth and becoming obsolete. After a good facepalm I then wonder, “what Church are you talking about?” I don’t think that is a Catholic Church that exists, not the one that exists in reality anyway. It’s hard to back up the claim that the fastest growing religion on the planet is fading. It’s hard to back up the claim that an institution that places such a high necessity on objective reason is superstitious.
 Unfortunately some Catholics (far too many) in the last 50 or so years have run with open arms to the modern world to show how “relevant” we are, parading our teaching on social justice as if it’s the summation of the Church, the culmination of our deposit of faith, the epitome of revealed Truth. When Catholics do that we can pretty much be summed up like this: 
 Don’t get me wrong, our social teaching is important, but it’s three little pages of the 700 page Catechism, and unless you’re a total jerk, it’s pretty hard to disagree with the social teaching.

 The Church becomes obsolete when she forgets how to church. (yes, that is now a verb) I’m talking about living the Catholic way of life, and the center of that, the crux upon which everything else is based, the very core of our being, is found in the Mass; it is Jesus. At Mass we eat his flesh and we drink his blood so that we will have true life within us. If we Catholics do not get Mass right, we get nothing right.

 At Mass we enter into the one true sacrifice of Christ on the cross, and participate in his resurrection in our celebration of the Eucharist. We enter into eternity. The powers and concerns that be in this world lose all significance, and the only thing that matters is the consuming love of God. Christ died 2,000 years ago on the cross, but it is for eternity, and because he, being God, is outside of space and time, it’s the same as if it were today, and the Eucharist is our means as corporeal beings who are bound by space and time, to enter into that eternal sacrifice.
 As much as the Mass unites us with Christ who was and who is, it also unites us to Christ who is to come. If we close in on ourselves and say that God’s kingdom is come and realized fully right now, we become self-centered and not Christ-centered, and also have a lot of explaining to do for the state of God’s kingdom. Vatican II did not call for the Church to go out to the world and tell them they are loved and sit around at the bottom of the mountain and pretend all is good. If we dare to claim we are people of love, we have the duty and the obligation to then convert the world and bring it back up the mountain to the Lord. (Verso l’alto anyone?)
 We must realize that we are in the “in-between” time as the Church Fathers called it, the time of the sunrise, where the dawn of Christ’s resurrection has broken and is casting out the darkness, but the fullness of day is not yet here, there are still shadows, mysteries we don’t yet comprehend. We must realize that we are not yet there, that we are a journeying people and be constantly moving towards Christ.

 It is this that makes us the Church that is, that we are not static, but on the move towards God. Secularists want us to believe we are a Church that was, a superstitious few clinging to a relic of the past. Others want us to think we are simply a social work organization. That is not what we are. We are the mystical body of Christ, who was and who is and who is to come. So long as we are a Church on the way, moving towards Christ, allowing him to transform our being in the Eucharist we will remain the Church that is.

 No proof of our “relevance” will suffice for anyone (especially me, I just don’t care to hear about it). The only way for the Church to accomplish her mission is by conversion, allowing ourselves to be had by the one who is Love, to live more fully in the splendor of the Truth, to be made alive by him who has conquered death. The only way is in Jesus the Christ.

In the tender compassion of our God, the dawn from on high shall break upon us, to shine on those who dwell in darkness and the shadow of death, and to guide our feet into the way of peace. (Lk 1:78-79)
Written by: Marty Arlinghaus
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Living the Passion: Why I Want to Suffer

8/28/2013

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Guys—the Passion and Resurrection change everything. Here’s one way.

 When Jesus was crucified, He paved the way from the suffering, sin, and death of this life into the Kingdom of God. He became the way for all of us to follow Him into the light. In addition, He gave all of the pain we experience in our human existence new meaning and purpose.

“How?” you may ask.
As we know, Jesus lived a human life in every way except sin. Even though He lived 2,000-some years ago, the basics of human experience haven’t changed that much. This means that he felt every discomfort that we feel today—awkwardness, humiliation, guilt, worry, hunger, loneliness, rejection, fear, grief, hang nails, sunburn…you get it. Everything that we feel as sinners, he felt as our sinless savior. The fact that Jesus entered into humanity, not only in physical form but also emotionally and psychologically, gives the suffering that we experience today new meaning. Instead of pain meaning something that we want to avoid at all costs, it can mean something that makes us more like Christ. In Colossians 1:24, Paul says,

Now I rejoice in what I am suffering for you, and I fill up in my flesh what is still lacking in regard to Christ’s afflictions, for the sake of his body, which is the church.

Here, Paul is expressing joy in his sufferings (aka LOTS of persecution because of his faith). He says that his joy comes from the realization that when he offers up his persecutions and afflictions to God, he becomes a partner in Christ’s work on the Cross. Paul’s suffering took on a new meaning—it became a unique way for him to be part of God’s Kingdom.

In this verse, Paul also describes his suffering’s new purpose as a way to defend Christianity and to draw others closer to Jesus. Our challenges today can take on those same purposes. When we offer up our sadness and pain to God, not only do we grow in unity to Jesus but we also become a powerful witness for Christianity. Imagine if your Facebook news feed didn’t contain status updates like, “This job is sucking the life out of me…arrrg” or “My sister couldn’t be more annoying,” but instead included sentiments like, “I wonder what God is teaching me through this frustrating work experience…Thank You for all the ways You lead me!,” or “Thank You, Jesus, for Your example of patience and humility; I certainly need it today!” When we rejoice and point to God instead of living in self-pity when we suffer, we are emulating Jesus!

The most powerful image of this way of suffering is Jesus’ death on the Cross. When Jesus was crucified, He wasn’t numb to the pain of the nails in His hands and feet; He wasn’t immune to the feeling of suffocation on the cross; He thirsted while hanging in the burning sun. Even through his dying process, Jesus did not curse those who killed Him—He forgave them. He even brought one of the sinners dying next to Him into Paradise that day. If we choose to suffer this way each day, we will become more and more like Jesus.

But, the journey didn’t end on the Cross for Jesus. After He lived a fully human, fully divine life, Jesus was resurrected from the dead! Obviously, this is GREAT news for us. Jesus’ Resurrection provides us with hope that our human suffering is not in vain and will one day cease. It also means that we can now have a personal relationship with Him, and He can walk with us through our lives. Who better to teach us how to live (and suffer!) in a way that glorifies the Lord than Jesus? After all, He has experiencesd it all and lived it perfectly.

Written by: Jacklyn Neforos
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